July 2011
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We're still here
It’s been awhile. But these munchkins have taken up a lot of my time.
We’re still here. Just living life offline.
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April 2011
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Day 40: Cardio
Today will conclude 40 days. The journey has come to an end today, and I have to take this day to step back and look at the bigger picture of the journey travelled so far.
I feel more aware, and if anything more “spiritually” fit. Through this entire process of trying to blog everyday, I’ve forced my soul into action, pushing my heart and mind into an everyday workout. What has...
Audrey-ism #42
Earlier today when I was on the comp, I moved my chair to get comfortable and it rubbed against the hardwood floor making a sound.
Audrey: Mommy you farted?
Me: No Audrey.
Audrey: Mommy you farted?
Me: Noooo Audrey.
Audrey: You Poo Poo in your pants Mommy?
Me: NO Audrey!
Audrey: ...Mommy farted! (giggling)
Me: (sigh)
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Day 38: Human
Quite the busy day Jesus had before He died.
He washed the feet of his followers, giving them an example of how to continue the work He began and how we should all serve one another. And lastly, He gave us the Eucharist. His physical way of being one with us throughout time. A symbol of sorts to show His lasting fidelity to His flock.
As much as this was Godly stuff, it was very human. If I knew...
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Day 37: Dig
Not much words at this point of the Lenten Challenge. I think I’m coming to the point of slowing down on the output process, to just focus on the moments that are the cornerstone of my faith. I think it’s time to dig deeper inside.
For all those reading from an imported note on FaceBook, here’s the video link.
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Day 36: Push
Now that this Lenten Journey is coming to a close, and the Easter Triduum is only a few days away, it’s been hard not to think about anything else then Jesus’ anguish during this whole ordeal of Easter.
From sweating blood while praying, your homies falling asleep when you need them the most, being betrayed by a colleague, denied three times by his closest friend, beaten and...
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Day 34: Constellations
Today, our little family went to the Children’s Museum, for a much needed day of family shenanigans.
There was a little exhibit there that Audrey and I had a chance to enjoy, and it was a mini observatory so that we could learn about stars and space. The thing that intrigued me the most (maybe not Audrey so much) was Constellations. They’re basically a grouping of stars that represent...
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Day 32: Jump
Today at confession, the priest reminded me of something that I forgot. That all in all, I’m a good person.
It’s easy to forget when you spend the 30 minutes before that moment really mulling out how bad of person you are. I’ve learned that you really have to go to the lowest lows of yourself in order to get to greater heights. The key is not to dwell on the low, but to use it...
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Day 30: Cheers
Cheers to my teammate who watches my back, and keeps me focused on the goal. Cheers to my best friend, who always makes sure I’m doing well. Cheers to my financial planner, who’s always assuring me that we’re okay. Cheers to the mother of my kids, who’s love makes boo-boos better.
Cheers to my wife, for 3 of the best years of my life so far. Life would literally not be...
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Day 29: Surface
So this whole Lenten Reflection thing, got me reflecting about reflecting. No really. As I was praying about what to post, I was thinking “Why do we even use the word reflection when it comes to ‘deep thinking’ and recollection?”
When I think of reflection I think of a mirror, or still water. That when I look in it, I will obviously see myself. The only thing that will...
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Day 28: Moderation
For those who live holistically (the person is the perfect harmony of mind, heart and body working together for higher good), guilt is a welcome friend that helps indicate that there is something wrong needing to be resolved. When guilt is rejected as an enemy, the conscience is clouded over or destroyed, and the mind is left to its own authority. The body is a helpless soldier with no...
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Day 25: Spend
If there’s time to complain, there’s time to be grateful.
If there’s time to read up on gossip, there’s time to honor one another.
If there’s time to party, there’s time to pray.
If there’s time to for Facebook, there’s time to read something uplifting.
If there’s time to listen to music, there’s time to be silent.
If there’s...
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Day 20: Plan
To be quite honest, this intense relationship I have with God was never in my life plan.
I think a lot of crap happens along the way of trying to make your dreams real. But luckily I was paying attention to see that God was happening during it all.
Thank God for change. It’s my reminder that I’m moving forward.
March 2011
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Day 18: Instant
I always get overwhelmed how fast God is to forgive me, but how slow I am in asking for forgiveness.
I spend days and months of trying to cope with guilt, regret and worry. I’m always taken back when I go to confession and in an instant, I’m reminded that God and I are still cool. That I’m still loved, and that laundry list of not so good things I just read off, is put in his...
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Day 17: Truth
But he passed through the midst of them and went away
Luke 4:30
This the last line of the gospel for today. To sum up everything before this, Jesus basically walked into town and pissed the town off by essentially saying “change your unhealthy ways.” He even talked about their heritage and how they got screwed because they didn’t change. They then chased him to the edge of town...
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Day 16: Ripple
Self-Revelation as a Father No. 19084:
What seems to be a little ripple now, becomes a tsunami of hurt and misunderstanding later on.
Be present, initiate , and be intentional with my time, my actions and my love.
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Day 14: Focus
It seems that Japan is the latest trend.
Maybe I need the major news coverage to wake me up, or have #japan hashtags flooding my twitter feed to take notice, or Facebook status updates to motivate me to do something. All this chaos in Japan got me reflecting about, past disasters that have just recently happened. Does anyone remember what happened to Christchurch, New Zealand? Does anyone even...
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Day 13: Grind
“Can you drink the chalice that I am going to drink?”
Matthew 20:22
This is one of the few times in the Gospel were Jesus was talking behind code a little bit. He was essentially saying “I’m about to fulfill my purpose, and it’s not going to be easy. Can you do what I’m about to do?”
It’s a reminder for me that nothing good ever comes without...
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Day 10: Recess
It’s interesting that during Lent, it seems that we get days off. Sundays are those days where we don’t have to fast and abstain. Now some would take this day and simply pig out and gorge on whatever they’ve been fasting for 6 days. But I think, God in His goodness has a greater purpose for it.
Simply put, I think Sunday is that day where I can have whatever I want, but being...
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Day 7: Honesty
My last entry sparked what I’ll be writing typing about for this one, and it was further fueled by a reflection from another blogging veteran who has taken the Lenten Challenge alongside me. It’s been 7 consecutive days (8 with a day of rest) and this Lenten reflection challenge has been nothing less than enriching. Taking the time to think, pray, analyze and finally output how God is...
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Day 4: Inertia
Teach me your way, O Lord, that I may walk in your truth.
Psalm 86:11
I think the hard part of following God, or trying to “walk in truth,” is that I really don’t want to follow. At least that’s what my actions say sometimes. Truth be told, I chose this path to follow God with my own free will (what a great gift by the way). But for the most part I don’t get to...
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Day 3: Obvious
It’s funny how Lent seems almost like New Year’s. If I’ve been slacking with my spiritual life, LENT comes around and somehow motivates me to do better, and to think of new resolutions to try and keep.
It’s definitely a bittersweet experience. Bitter because I realize how much I’ve slacked in my commitment. Sweet because I realize again (maybe with more gravity...
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Day 2: Live
Choose life, then, that you and your descendants may live…
Deutronomy 30:19
Q: What’s the secret to life? A: Living.
It’s funny how the answer is already indicated in the question. I personally think it’s that simple. Just choose to live, just choose life. What does that entail exactly? It’s tough to say, especially in today’s society, with so many answers,...
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Day 1: Basic
FOREWORD:
In an effort to utilize my time more productively for Lent 2011, I’ve decided to post a reflection a day, no matter how short. So this is entry Number 1. Wish me luck. Or better yet, say a prayer for me!
“Turn away from sin and be faithful to the Gospel”
That’s what is being said, as they put the cross of ashes on your forehead. Normally, something like this...
February 2011
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TEN
On this date 10 years ago, I embarked on a commitment.
It was to give the best years of my life to God. To somehow “repay” Him for giving me a new start in life. A second chance to tackle life with a laser like focus and an all encompassing passion.
It was something I thought would only take up a few of the prime years of my life, and then I would kind of “move on” to...
January 2011
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Mine All Mine
A few of my Birthday gifts over the past few years.
One came 5 days late.
The other came 1 day early.
But both came at the right time in my life.
Happy Birthday Life indeed.
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Stand Up For What's Right
Efren: By the way hon, I just wanted to let you know that my XBOX Live Membership is due this month.
Gracee: Bye bye XBOX! (with huge smile)
Efren: Listen, I don't speak up about a lot of things, but I must stand up for this!
Gracee: Sucka!
Efren: Tyranny I tell you! Tyranny!
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Teach Them Well
Daddy: Audrey, when someone asks how old you are, you say... "Two"
Audrey: "Two"
Daddy: Very Good!
Audrey: (smiles)
Daddy: Okay, let's try it. How old are you?
Audrey: "Audrey"
Daddy: Close enough.
December 2010
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Stuff The Husband Says #59
Grace: I can't believe I gained 3 pounds! (from Christmas parties)
Efren: I can... I saw you eat these past few days.
Grace: (insert surprised face!)
Efren: Yeah I said it...
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Stuff My Husband Says #192
Grace: I'm such a plain jane.
Efren: I love you simple. Even with your triple chin.
Grace: Triple? I thought I only had a double.
Efren: No. Triple.
Grace: (Sad Face)
Efren: (goes in for the hug)
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Prayer Time with a Toddler
(During prayer time)
Butch: Audrey, tell Jesus what you're thankful for?
Audrey: cookies...mommy...daddy....books
Butch: anything else?
Audrey: (then does baby sign for food)
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WatchNow that I’m a father (especially with a daughter), this is ever more a message for me.
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November 2010
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October 2010
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September 2010
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